A few months ago I had the oppor­tu­nity to be a fea­tured blog­ger with The SITS Girls.  I learned a lot from this expe­ri­ence and wished I had done a few things dif­fer­ently or at min­i­mum been armed with some tips.  With that in mind I thought I might pass a few of those on to you should you have an invi­ta­tion to be a fea­tured blog­ger.  I cer­tainly wish I had a resource like this before it was my fea­ture day.

I am only one blog­ger, and a pretty new one at that (just cel­e­brat­ing 1 year), I decided to reach out to more expe­ri­enced blog­gers for some input.  I was quite hon­ored to have them reply and participate.

Below is a selec­tion of tips from every­one.  There were a lot of dupli­cate tips which just reit­er­ates the impor­tance of tak­ing these tips into mind on any fea­ture day you might have.

You’ve sub­mit­ted your blog to be featured…now what?

You don’t know when you will be fea­tured, but it will happen…someday (for SITS, I waited 9 months. Another fea­ture oppor­tu­nity might only be a month away).

Don’t wait & be prepared!

Leah from Far From Per­fect MaMMa

Don’t think you have 2 or 3 weeks to pre­pare for your blog for a fea­tured oppor­tu­nity.  Start prepar­ing NOW!  Per­son­ally I only had 5 days notice (for­tu­nately 2 of those days fell over a week­end) before my fea­ture day.  For other fea­ture oppor­tu­ni­ties you should have a wel­come post ready to go in the event a blog needs a replace­ment blog­ger or last-minute hole to fill.  Then do some per­sonal touches depend­ing on where you will be featured.

Do a lit­tle clean­ing up each day so that it doesn’t seem like such a daunt­ing task when you have only 24 hours left. You will always be tweak­ing your blog.  It will never be per­fect.  Start work­ing on the things you want to change now.  It will give you time to play with the plu­g­ins or design changes to see if you like them and want to keep them around.  Trust me, you don’t want to find some­thing you don’t like on the day of your feature.

Write or freshen up your “about me” page. If you have not yet writ­ten one, now is the best time (really it should have been done before your blog was pub­lic).  Maybe you have not looked at it in the past 3–6 months.  Bet­ter go take a look, there might be some things on there you will want to update and make more current.

Posts lead­ing up to Fea­tured Opportunity

Char­lotte from My Pixie Blog

Make sure the posts lead­ing up to the SITS day are ones you are proud of show­ing off. Chances are, you’ll have many new read­ers and if they decide to poke around a bit you’ll want to put your best foot for­ward to give them a rea­son to return and follow.

Ele­va­tor Pitch:

Beth from OMG! Yummy

Be pre­pared! Don’t put off writ­ing your ele­va­tor pitch — you never know when you’ll get a fea­ture offer and need a photo and sum­mary of your blog.

Wel­come Post

Shell from Things I Can’t Say:

Most of the new traf­fic you will get that day will be from SITS so you do not need to spend a lot of time explain­ing what SITS is. Just a line or two with a link. You can always gush about SITS on twit­ter, face­book, or a fol­low up post. But your SITS day is about you.

Keep your post short. Under 300 words. Yes, truly, that short. Give a brief intro into who you are and what read­ers are likely to find on your blog. High­light your pop­u­lar top­ics or any fea­tures that you do. Include links, but limit to 3–5. You want to give peo­ple a feel for who you are, show them around your blog a lit­tle, but not have them think that they need to spend the entire day on your blog just to see if they’d want to come back or not.

Be Your­self and put your best foot forward

Beth from OMG! Yummy

Always put your best foot for­ward — even if your site doesn’t look exactly the way you want or you’re halfway through a blog repo­si­tion­ing (like me), you can still make each ele­ment the very best it can be — pho­tos that are crisp and clear and cropped the right size, proof­read, typo-free copy, a post on your own site that wel­comes read­ers and opens the door to even more great con­tent.  Also, be pre­pared with qual­ity con­tent after your fea­ture day to take advan­tage of the boost in readership!

Uti­lize links, favorites & “related posts plugins/features”

Adrian from Adrian’s Crazy Life

You need to plan your “Wel­come post” care­fully, even more so now.  Back when I had my days, we had links to 3 dif­fer­ent posts, so peo­ple had a choice of sev­eral places to “land”.  With the new for­mat, you’ll need to cre­ate those links your­self in your post (blogger’s note: SITS does allow 3 links on the SITS post, how­ever this may not be an option on all fea­ture oppor­tu­ni­ties, so well worth the advice in gen­eral).  I try to have a lit­tle bit of some­thing for every­one, so I tried to include one funny post, one that gave some info about me with more of a seri­ous slant, and then some­thing use­ful like a tip or a piece of awe­some advice.  Then I use Link Within on my blog, so each post has addi­tional links at the end to encour­age peo­ple to explore my blog even fur­ther.  I’ve also got my Best Of link on my blog (per advice of the SITS girls) to show all my most favorite posts.  If I can keep some­one hang­ing around read­ing my posts for 15 to 20 min­utes, then I’ve really achieved my goal.

Your day has finally arrived…are you doing a dance?

It’s finally here and maybe you have pre­pared the best you can, now what?  Yes, you can do your lit­tle dance, I did, but no one saw it (thank good­ness!). The tips below can make all the dif­fer­ence to get peo­ple to your blog and to return after the spot­light moves down the line to the next blogger.

Reply­ing to comments:

Leah from Far From Per­fect MaMMa

This was my big­gie dis­ap­point­ment.  Since I had just moved over from Blog­ger, I didn’t real­ize that I needed to install a plu­gin for com­ment reply noti­fi­ca­tions.  Turns out all of my hard work in keep­ing up with the com­ments was for noth­ing as no one who vis­ited knew I responded to their com­ments.  This is so impor­tant for build­ing rela­tion­ships with other blog­gers.  Hav­ing some­one leave a valu­able com­ment (not just the stop­ping by from “X” blog) is like some­one stop­ping by the house to say hello.  I’m not going to ignore them at the front door and not respond.

Blog­ger has a fairly new fea­ture that not every­one knows about.  You can now turn on the “reply” fea­ture.  This will enable any­one to reply to a par­tic­u­lar com­ment and the per­son who left the first com­ment will be noti­fied that there is a reply.  Blog­ger has made it very easy.  Here is a quick step by step to turn it on.

If you use Word­Press you will need to install a Com­ment Noti­fi­ca­tion Plu­gin.  Be sure you go in after the install and check the set­tings to change them to your pref­er­ence.  You may not pre­fer the default settings.

Uti­lize Social Media

Deirdre from JDaniel4’s Mom

I was so excited that I tweeted and face­booked my post on SITS and on my blog. Social media is so impor­tant on your SITS day. You get to use @SITSGIRLS on Twit­ter and reach all their fol­low­ers too when you pro­mote your day. It gives you a chance to reach beyond your own Twit­ter audi­ence to theirs. The same holds true for Facebook.

The Spot­light is gone…but what really matters?

Max­i­mize the new traffic

Leah from Far From Per­fect MaMMa

• There will be a lot of traf­fic and a lot of com­ments. Take your time and respond to them (you don’t have to do it on THAT day!)
• Visit each blog who vis­ited you. Com­ment with some­thing mean­ing­ful (not thanks for vis­it­ing me on my SITS day, return­ing the favor). Let them know you read their blog. You don’t have to fol­low them! Your com­ment just might make their day and encour­age them though.
• Pay It For­ward: If you DID enjoy what you read, tweet about it, link to face­book, etc… Fol­low them on Social Media.  Maybe even sub­scribe to the blog.
• Keep in mind you do not have to do all this in one day.  My SITS day was back in the begin­ning of March.  I am STILL vis­it­ing each blog­ger.  This is extremely impor­tant to me since I didn’t have com­ment reply noti­fi­ca­tion.  I respect the time peo­ple took (when I know they DID take the time) to read a post..or two..or even three.  I want to return the favor.…because for me it’s about build­ing rela­tion­ship and encour­ag­ing others.
• DO NOT do it out of OBLIGATION.  Don’t do the above steps because you HAVE to.  Do it if you WANT to.  If you WANT to build your blog, build rela­tion­ships, and obtain more read­ers you will need to invest the time & energy.  It’s not just going to hap­pen. Sorry to burst your bubble.

Some addi­tional words for thought

Treat oth­ers how you want to be treated.  As you wait for your fea­ture day, how do you treat other fea­tured blog­gers? When you visit them do you do so out of oblig­a­tion or because their blog looks like one you might want to fol­low and read more?  “Roll call” is great (actu­ally required from SITS), it shows your loy­alty and enthu­si­asm, how­ever for the fea­tured blog­ger do your­self and them a favor and visit the blogs that really do intrigue you.  I would much rather pre­fer to have vis­i­tors who read some­thing inter­est­ing or desire to know me and my jour­ney more (another rea­son why your SITS post and wel­come post is so important).

I have found many (only a few are excerpted here in this post) new blogs to fol­low thanks to SITS and other fea­tured blog­gers.  I hope mine was one that peo­ple fol­lowed because of SITS too.  I was encour­aged and blessed by many of the com­ments peo­ple wrote.  It was an honor to hear from those who enjoyed read­ing my story about how MM and I met, the ten­der mem­o­ries that was spurred by my post about the wed­ding gift from my grand­par­ents, or even the chal­lenges I face in as a bicul­tural MaMMa.  They touched oth­ers and in return I was touched too.  This is what it really comes down to…being blessed by oth­ers.  Please don’t jump from one blog to another because you have to, or out of oblig­a­tion, but because you WANT to.

Do you have advice to pass along to oth­ers from a fea­ture day you had as a blog­ger?  Maybe you were fea­tured some­where other than SITS? Please share them!

If you are wait­ing for your first fea­ture, what is one take­away for you and your blog?

A HUGE thank you to each of the con­tribut­ing blog­gers who wrote me with lessons learned from their SITS day:

Shell from Things I Can’t Say

Dei­dre from JDaniel4’s Mom

Beth from OMG! Yummy

Adrian from Adrian’s Crazy Life

Char­lotte from My {Pixie} Blog

Seri­ously… was it really ONE year ago when I started blog­ging? YIKES! That is amaz­ing.  I’m so sur­prised with where this jour­ney has taken me.  I don’t think I will link it here as it was pretty pathetic, plus it is still the old for­mat from my blog­ger site. So…let’s just move on from here!  If you are not a blog­ger, you might get bored with the rest of this so you can just answer my ques­tion and be done with it…what is your favorite post? Please do share.

For the rest of you who are blog­gers, more specif­i­cally, those of you who have had a SITS day…this is for YOU (well, I just need some input…the more brains the bet­ter than just mine)!

Just two weeks ago I had the plea­sure of being the fea­ture blog­ger on SITS.  Sorry if you missed it, and I’m even more sorry if you are a blog­ger and don’t know what I’m talk­ing about.   SITS is a blog­ging com­mu­nity for women who are look­ing to be bet­ter blog­gers and want­ing to build a com­mu­nity of sup­port as a blog­ger.  It was actu­ally so encour­ag­ing a lots of fun to meet new blog­gers.  I’m still going through and vis­it­ing each of the blog­gers who stopped by and said hello.  It takes a lot of time!

I cer­tainly learned a few lessons as I pre­pared for the day, on the day, and am still learn­ing them!

So in the spirit of SITS, I am prepar­ing a post called “What to expect for your SITS Day”.  While I have my own thoughts on what to do to help fel­low blog­gers pre­pare & engage, I know that many of you who have had a SITS day might have some valu­able insight.  So, here is your chance to share what you learned on your SITS day (or in prepar­ing, or thereafter!).

Here are a few ques­tions to get you thinking.…

• What was most successful?
• Is there some­thing you would do dif­fer­ent if you had another SITS day?
• What les­son did you learn on your SITS day?
• What ONE piece of advice would you pass along to the next fea­ture blog­ger on SITS?
• Did you use Social Media to mar­ket your day? If so, what did you do?

 

 

 

If you have some­thing to offer here, please send me an email (see that cool “con­tact me” slider on the left side?…just click there) answer­ing one, two, or all of the ques­tions above.  The more answers to the ques­tions you are able to answer, the bet­ter chance of you being included in the post.  If there are dupli­cate answers only one might be selected.

Please be sure to include the URL you want me to link up, the html code for your badge (or just a thumb­nail if you don’t have a badge).

Emails must be sent by 11:59 Sun­day, March 25th. I will plan to post the week of April 2nd.

When the post is up, if you would be so kind to men­tion my post on your blog, social media, newslet­ter, etc… I would really appre­ci­ate it.  Here is my badge for you to grab for place­ment.  That’s it…easy peasy!

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I will email every­one when the post is ready to go.

 

Okay… This is a lit­tle dif­fer­ent, but I am work­ing on my revised “About Me” page for my new website/blog.  I am want­ing to a sort of Q&A style for it with pho­tos to accom­pany.  Thank you Simone over at Great Fun 4 kids who inspired the idea for me…just with a lit­tle twist.  Not only does she have some great pics, but she also lives in New Zealand…my 3 home away from home (1st? here…Colorado, 2nd…So. Cal where I grew up…NZ? Mom & Dad lived there for 6 years and I had the awe­some priv­i­lege of vis­it­ing mul­ti­ple times. Yes, I would hap­pily move there.)

So here is your chance to ask me ANYTHING.… I can­not promise I will post every­thing, but I will at least do a new post with all my answers regard­less (of course appro­pri­ate mea­sures will be followed!).

Please don’t be shy…Ask! I will be really bummed if I don’t end up with many com­ments!  Feel free to ask more than one.

many of you know me well…while oth­ers of you I have never met.  Should be fun!

Any of you on Pin­ter­est?  I am! 

And just because I like to include a pic with every post, I’m not leav­ing you empty-handed.…Here’s Pule show­ing off her new look.